For all of you who still believe in the institution of marriage, we do too. Marriage can and should evolve with society, and when it’s based around true love, anything is possible. Love is a powerful force. Join us as two hearts dear to us here at Scattered Love Letters step forward as one. They wrote and performed their own vows and ceremony. How romantic! We love that!
A wedding is a wonderful occasion, filled with hopes, dreams, and excitement. We are here to celebrate the love we have for each other, and to openly express our decision to journey forward in our lives as marriage partners.
In 1 Cor 13, Paul writes:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always
protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
I have never before known the desire and passion you have created in me.
I never imagined these feelings were even possible.
Words cannot describe our spiritual, physical, and emotional connection. From the moment we met, I discovered a unique bond with a truly special person. My life was forever changed, and now, with you in my life, each day is truly lovely.
We came together from separate paths and today begin our journey along the same road, our destinies forever linked, our lives intertwined.
I have heard that love consists not of gazing into each other’s eyes, but of looking outward together in the same direction.
From deep within my heart, I love you.
In you I have found someone to share not only the good times, but the bad; not only the pleasure, but the pain; someone to support and be supported by.
You are my companion to confide in and console.
You are my best friend, and I am sure that with you, none of life’s obstacles will stand in our way. Together we will enjoy all life has to offer.
My love, my soulmate, my partner, my best friend – today, I ask you to be my wife and companion. I commit myself to you for the rest of our lives together … and beyond.
Our friendship developed quickly, with a deep respect for each other’s talent and ability. As we supported and guided each other, with God’s help, you led me to look into my heart and soul, as together we shared our hopes, dreams, fears, and desires for the future.
Sometime, probably sooner than either of us knew, we fell in love, and now, as I gaze into your eyes, I look into your soul and I join you there.
I have fallen in love with you a thousand times.
I will fall in love with you thousands more, giving my love to you freely.
I know that we will be tested by the routines of daily life, by chance and circumstance, and by the full cycle of the seasons of life. I am entering into our marriage knowing that together we will face life’s sorrow no less than its sweetness, its frustration along with its grace and ease, its disappointment along with its fulfillment.
I promise that, as your partner, I will do my best to help us keep our hearts open to each other and the love flowing between us even at the times this may be hardest to do.
I will remain at your side, holding you close and supporting you above all.
The strength of the connection we have between us was evident when we first met. In our lives, I will continue to explore and develop that connection.
As I give myself to you in marriage, I vow to be a loving partner, filled with passion and friendship.
When we are apart, I will always look at the sky and the moon, knowing that we are together, never truly apart, for our hearts and souls are so incredibly linked.
You have freed my wings for flying, and I will fly with you forever.
I will look for your secret places and share mine with you, always working to keep our love new, exciting, adventurous, and young, especially as it grows in maturity and familiarity.
You were made to love me and I was made to love you.
Our destinies intertwined, bringing us together here today and for the rest of our lives.
Keep your loving arms around me.
Our love proves to me that miracles really do happen.
It will last forever.
These bands are circles, and circles are symbolic of the sun, the earth, and the universe.
As arms that embrace, these wedding bands we give and receive this day reflect the circle of shared love into which we enter as partners in life.
May we always be blessed, and may we abide in peace and love.
May this band, that is identical to mine, always remind you that from this day forward, you will be surrounded by my love.
Pronouncement and Final Blessing
May the grace of this day carry forward with us all the days of our lives. May we find delight in each other and may our love continue to grow and to nurture us throughout our lives. And may we nurture ourselves and our marriage with acceptance, understanding, cooperation, and loving.
May the life we share be peaceful, healthy, and filled with blessings and joy.
And now, by the power vested in me, I witness and affirm our union of love and pronounce that we are husband and wife.
May the grace and wisdom of God be always with us. May the love of God always fill us, surround us, and protect us. Amen.
Now, we go forth in peace, joy and celebration.
Bride & Groom